Denial – a Freedom Ministry blog by Shirley

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If you even think you might have a problem with a hurt, hang up, or habit, it probably is a problem.  You’ve already thought about it.  Justified in your head why it is not a problem.  (“It’s not that bad.”  “I am not as bad as so-and-so.”  “I can get control of it if I try harder.”  “I did not really put my mind to it.”  “If we don’t talk about it, it will go away.”  “It really doesn’t hurt when he/she does that.  I am fine.”  “He/She just needs it to relax.  It really is not a problem.”)  Hey!  I am not trying to make you feel bad.  I am just talking from my own experience.